Suzanne O’Connor’s Bargains LA

Avoiding Temptation

When I am short on funds or don’t really need anything, I take my checkbook, ATM and CC out of my wallet and get by on cash only and keep less than $40 in my wallet.

I don’t like temptation….of any kind. Whether it’s high calorie delectable dessert or an incredible designer jacket, I always end up getting it if I don’t use some self-imposed control.

Going to outlets and sample sales all the time is my job, but it makes overspending easy for me. After all, I’m saving a gazillion dollars on any purchase I make… right? But when my closets are overstuffed and I don’t have any room for one more piece of furniture, artwork, knic knac or electronic gadget…it’s time to stop.

The truth is many of us live a life of self-indulgence, buying things we won’t really use or need. If you don’t really need it, or the purchase won’t make your life, wardrobe or living conditions better, you simply don’t need to make the purchase.

If like me, you are tempted all the time, take your credit cards, checkbook, ATM and extra cash out of your wallet. You can get by a day or even a week or two without them. It’s empowering to realize how much you can do without…comfortably.

I stopped into a favorite downtown fashion outlet (Morrie’s) on Saturday with my daughter to look for a formal dress. When the owner asked why they hadn’t seen me in so long, I told them I had been avoiding the store for the last 4 months so I wouldn’t buy any clothes. I had other expenses and didn’t want to be tempted by something I could live without for awhile. They carry all my favorite labels including Free People and Juicy Couture. How am I suppose to avoid some of my favorites at 50%-80% off if I stop in all the time. Too tempting.

I have 7 fabulous handbags, but wear only 2 regularly. I have 10 pairs of jeans but live in only 3. I have 18 pairs of shoes but only wear 1 pair consistently. I have 12 blazer jackets, but only use 4-5 every year.  I have dozens upon dozens of tees and tops…. These I wear or I give them to my daughter.

Don’t think of it as imposed denial. Think of it as self-discipline. Before long there will be something you’ll really need to purchase. Then you can buy without guilt or buyers remorse.